Monday, September 04, 2006

We, the little people

Last year I was involved in some slum project in Delhi. It was late evening by the time I finished the rounds. The group of hutment dwellers took me to what was supposedly the best little house in their midst.

They pulled out the only chair there was for me and this is what I saw on the wall.
The man of the house had no legs. He slid in on a make-shift 'cart'; his wife stood proudly next to him. I asked about the pictures, "What do all these have in common?"
He laughed and spoke in halting Hindi, "Kuchch nahin, lekin sab ko respect karna hai. (Nothing, but one respects everyone)"

A whole lot of people had gathered in that little room, some spilling on the doorstep. Someone bought a cola for me. I was asked not to leave without having dinner with them. It was a touching gesture. I said, “Next time” and just so that they did not feel bad I started discussing the nuances of various uthhppams.

It was a South Indian family. I tried my little Tamil with them to much guffaws all round.

And then of course as I was leaving I said, with complete idiocy, "Vanakkam". It means welcome.

I may never meet them again, or I may. But even in that faux pas I think I had welcomed them into my little world as they had welcomed me.

They were fighting to preserve their homes that were going to be bulldozed. I have found out that they have won the case. I smile at the memory of that wall. I can only hope that walls too have memories.

3 comments:

Beej.Kumar@gmail.com said...

I am opposed to the concept of blind respect for everybody. Just look at the pictures - the political leaders are placed higher up than the deities! Does it make any sense?!! Not to me.

FV said...

Even the clock and airplane are above one deity and in line with the other two...these things do not mean disrespect. Besides, we find our gods, gods do not find us...

Beej.Kumar@gmail.com said...

Okay, true. But I hold firm on the point of blind respect – even though I realize that perhaps this trait is due to many Indians having great humility, which is a virtue. This is a very touching account, by the way. When you get a chance, can you put up more stuff and details on your field work activities of this nature? (For example, you have earlier alluded to working with blind folks.)